An avid animal lover and animal welfare advocate, Day was brought up Catholic and was a practicing Christian Scientist after marrying producer Martin Melcher.
Day “drifted away” from organized religion after Melcher died in 1968, Bashara says, but remained “a spiritual person.”
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“She believed in God, and she thought her voice was God-given,” he says. “She would say, ‘God gave me a voice, and I just used it.’”
Bashara says he remains unsure as to why Day was reticent about having a funeral, but explains, “I think it was because she was a very shy person.”
“She never let her celebrity affect her and who she was, and she was always the little girl from Cincinnati who was extraordinarily talented and went out in the world and did what she loved to do despite herself,” he says. “She was guileless, and I had discussions with her about how popular she was, and she would say, ‘I don’t understand it’ about why she was so loved.”
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“She knew her fans loved her from all the letters, and that meant a lot to her,” he adds.
Bashara says Day’s estate will be donated to charity, per her will.
“The ultimate thing for it is to keep the foundation going,” he says of her Doris Day Animal Foundation, which she created in 1978.
Friends and fans wishing to remember Doris Day, are encouraged to visit www.dorisdayanimalfoundation.org.